By: Mary Kate S., Guest Student Author
In college, abortion feels way more normalized than it does in other stages of life, and a big part of that is hookup culture. A lot of people aren’t in super serious relationships, things are more casual, spontaneous, and sometimes not really thought through in the moment. Because of that, the risk of unplanned pregnancy is higher, and abortion becomes something people talk about more openly as an option. It’s not always this huge, taboo thing like it might be back home. Instead, it’s kind of treated like a realistic decision that people might have to make given the situation they’re in.
College society also plays a role because people are focused on their futures, like getting a degree, internships, and figuring out their careers. Having a baby at that point can feel completely overwhelming or even impossible for a lot of students. So within that environment, abortion can be seen as a way to stay on track rather than something shocking or rare. Plus, being surrounded by a lot of different viewpoints and more open conversations makes it feel less stigmatized. It’s not that it’s an easy decision, but it’s definitely talked about in a more casual and normalized way compared to other places.
On top of that, the way people talk about it on campus can make it seem less serious than it really is. Between casual conversations, social media, and even some campus resources, it can start to feel like it’s just a normal part of college life. Friends might try to be supportive, but sometimes that turns into brushing off the emotional weight of the situation. Overall, it creates an environment where something that is actually a really significant and personal decision can feel almost routine–and that’s concerning.
The combination of hookup culture and the fast-paced, future-focused mindset of college can make abortion seem more normal than it really is. While it’s important that people have options and support, the way it’s often talked about on campus can downplay how serious and personal the decision is. When something that significant starts to feel routine, it can take away from the level of thought and care it deserves. College culture may not force these choices, but it does shape how casually they’re viewed.
At Birthright St. Charles we understand the “college experience” and the college track. We’re here to answer questions, offer information and problem solve to find solutions that fit the need you have today while supporting the overall care you deserve for a healthy future. The “unplanned” doesn’t have to derail your plans.
